Seems like ‘Times- they are a changing’.
Contrary to popular beliefs, men do sometimes cry or tear up in public. Seems like teary eyed male politicians and media personalities are seen more now a days than before.
There is something about well built men who otherwise have competitive attitudes and are best in their fields going misty eyed. On one hand sensitivity is seen as a positive step towards compassion and honesty, although only in moderation.
I remember some reality shows on Bravo, one was the ‘Project Runway’ and the other was ‘Top Chef’, both were competitions and some men did weep incessantly due to the stress and tensions and were subsequently reprimanded for not being professional.
So too much crying or too often can also have the opposite effect. Although women have perfected the art of moderation equals to effectiveness, the men are new at this and so do not know when to stop.
However I have seen most of the men in my family or friend circle tear up and cry (I don’t have anything to do with it…really).
When it was time for my parents to bid me goodbye during my annual home visits, it would be my Dad who would start the weeping program and my Mom would just look on (almost glad that the visits were over and now she could have the TV remote all to herself and of course now she wouldn’t have to live in the kitchen).
I remember watching the movie Kuch Kuch Hota Hai with a male friend in a movie theater.
After half an hour i was distracted from the screen by someone sniffing and sniffling nearby. I turned to look at my otherwise well built male friend and there were tears rolling down his cheeks like Ganga Jamuna. Later on he disowned his teary episode to a cold (which he caught only for the duration of the movie…amazing movie virus AMV).
How does one distinguish between a mere demonstration and a sincerity. Well, its really not easy and other background factors like how much you know that person both publicly and personally do play a major part.
Crying is only an emotional display and so like love is universal.
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